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jeudi 2 janvier 2025

One dimensionalized in the DMs

 A phenomena I notice with the friends you chat with online is you kinda get pigeonholed. Like your work friend will send you work-related reels and nothing else. And the person you talked about dancing with will just send you dance stuff, but nothing else.

It's alright, no harm done really, because people making the effort to think about you is a net-positive even if it's low effort [I can't find the paper but I remember seeing it]. 

I think my novel contribution here is to be aware if I'm starting to do that to someone and then....just send the dankest stuff from left field. So we can form a holistic friendship on the basis of them knowing who I actually am <3

jeudi 29 juin 2023

Affirmative action shower thoughts

A Princeton professor said: 

At Harvard, more than 80% of recruited athletes are admitted. That’s orders of [magnitude] greater than any racial consideration. It also comes with considerable racial implications. 70% of athletes at Harvard are white, whereas only 40% of the student body is.

This is pretty revealing. You could argue the real enemies of equity, exacerbators of exclusivity, and honestly the most obvious elephants at elite colleges are: sports recruiting and legacy. AOC later quoted the same stats I think so I'm in good company.

But the quote also implies that the 40% white student body, while not even at > 50%, is still higher than it "should" be based on standard considerations. And also that, later in the thread, for colleges that don't consider gender they end up with more women admitted. I think that's fascinating.

Now on to shower-borne solutions. Why do people care about getting into elite colleges? I assume: better job opportunities. And subjectively "social prestige," but I'll focus on jobs for now because I think part of the solution is to undercut prestige. So. What if. Hear me out. We had "college blind" job hiring? Or affirmative action with consideration to diversify educational background?

"That's infeasible."

Is it though?

Federal law already bars employers from discriminating against potential or current employees on factors such as gender, race and age ("equal opportunity employer" or "EEO"). What if we simply tacked on educational background to that list?

"Educational background" is becoming more and more of a subjective bar with less and less utility thanks to democratized online learning materials. Personally speaking, college was the biggest waste of time educationally. I learned nothing that was unique to the particular university, and public high school education was much more meaningful overall.

So how could companies implement this? Google already sort of does this with "hiring committees" and so some of my colleagues didn't even attend college. Hiring committees are a detached cabal that have not interacted with the candidate and only look at the merits of the candidate's interview answers. The committee is blind to educational background, gender, and race. To make this equitable, the top of the funnel needs to include an intentionally diverse pool and that's where Google is imperfect, as are all other companies, since recruiters have extreme leeway and discretion on who to get through the screen.

"So you're saying there should be some federal law that asks recruiters to censor the college a candidate came from before presenting to hiring managers, or companies must consider candidates who attended non-elite colleges (>15% admission rate) in the pool, and the law also asks companies to revamp entire campus recruiting strategies, basically eliminating campus recruiting as it exists today?"

"...Yea!" It only sounds impossible because we settle into artificial constraints on what's possible! I think this is more feasible than fighting at the college admissions level, contending with incentives of endowment and sports economics, VERSUS at the employer level, where it's easier to argue college name != performance. Back to the shower for more thoughts.

dimanche 29 mars 2020

Freestyle

Child coming up with “rhymes” while singing.

Mom: ♬This old man he played one, he played knick-knacks on my--♬
Son: Foot!
M: This old man he played two, he played knick-knacks on my--
S: Door!
M: “““““three,”“““““--
S: Chest!
M: “““““four,”“““““--
S: baba!
M: “““““five,”“““““--
S: mama!
M: “““““six,”“““““--
S: Ai-jah!
M: “““““seven,”“““““--
S: Pikachu!
M: “““““eight,”“““““--
S: beow-dado!
M: “““““nine,”“““““--
S: Guda!
M: “““““ten,”“““““--
S: Jigae!

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This is not his strongsuit.

lundi 25 novembre 2019

love letter to new york

to which you’d say, like the guy I’m sitting next to in this organic burger joint: “IDGAF bout your stupid bitchass letter” (this is the clean ver)

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here goes.

Come off the plane in Newark, not too cold! Thanks ny metro carbon cover :)

Lyft driver clearly gouging me going through staten island/bklyn route so I report this dude and get him offed the lyft community before we get to Chelsea while I’m still in the car.

New York, you are frozen in a time capsule. Some things refuse to be gentrified. my go-to 99cent pizza hideout, clearly engaging in money laundering, is still around! rejoice!!

I love how tons of places are still open so I can grab this second dinner. Wanted Japanese with the 90s rnb but alas had more seating to charge my stuff here. 

Can’t wait to get on the subway to metrotech rushing from meeting to meeting. For now will be taking a slumber amidst the heap.

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Love you!

mercredi 28 août 2019

you know what's funny?

When things are chill and happy at home, we are usually talking to our son in Chinese. But when things escalate and I'm reaching my limit, I seem to have no choice but to voice my frustration in English.

Which is like, exactly what my parents did (in reverse). Speaking English during peacetime, blowing up in Chinese when it's hitting the fan.

This thought tickles me a lot.

vendredi 1 juin 2018

Bboy Fashion

So I just got delivered these nice vintage Adidas windbreaker pants - and it was merriment for all of 6 minutes before I realized I didn’t have any matching Adidas shoes.

You see, in bboying, a rule they tell you is to “dress fresh,” which has come to mean “dress in matching brands.” In the beginning this made sense to me, but now I have a few pushbacks:

  1. This is expression-insensitive. If dancing is about expression, putting a conforming element on it works the other way.
  2. This could be body-insensitive. My feet are made for Nike but my body maybe for some other brands.
  3. This could be financially-insensitive. In order to have matching head-to-toe, that could easily cost over a hundred, if not hundreds. For an activity that gets your clothes dirty!! It makes no sense for those who have hard budgets.

Hiphop/bboying has a lot of diverse factions within it – mentality-wise people are on a spectrum of conservative to progressive. I’m a smattering in-between depending on the topic (e.g., balance, forms, culture, etc. etc.).

lundi 17 juillet 2017

Embarrassing Nostalgia


As my parents are cleaning up their house in preparing to move to their dream home (just down the street lol), my sister forwards me this little piece of history.

I really resented this backpack. The “Victory U.S.A.” clearly shows this wasn’t made in the USA. I simply didn’t have the social tools during my childhood to deflect the insecurity.

Maybe it’s a loss that my kid will not go through this degree of socio-cultural tension, that maybe he’ll lose the opportunity to empathize with the awkward/misfit. Or it’s too early to say.

lundi 20 mars 2017

Backhand comments from work


“So when do you actually plan on remediating this?”

“We’re having trouble scoping this because we need to find an area where there are no known problems.”

“Are you guys planning on walking at this pace for the remainder of the trip? I’m asking because I may need to go faster.”

mercredi 27 avril 2016

Freaks Alum vs. Students Battle (edit)



Clips from Freaks of the Beat reunion. Edited out Alex’s burns..

Full clip: https://youtu.be/km8B_Jm6WRo

Video credit: Chi Tu

dimanche 27 juillet 2014

2014 Chiago, Cancun Trip




mardi 22 juillet 2014

2014 Cancun Bachelor Party



Bachelor Party AKA Justin Bieber “Beauty and the Beat” MV remake. Mad ups to @DShineee1 for equipment and editing! With +Albert Chu +Danny Shin  +Dustin Shung 

vendredi 20 juin 2014

What Coworkers and I Laugh About #2

Let me totes end this non-series series.
  • Using a rolling backpack at work elicits the same responses as it would in middle school.
  • I am famous among security guards in Frisco because I badged incorrectly. I also invoke memories of the Vietnam War.
  • A lesson in resource estimates: “Throwing more resources in this situation would be as useless as telling a pregnant woman that she can cut her lead-time from 9 months to 4 with help from another person.”

mercredi 24 avril 2013

I don't miss bioengineering


  • John Zhang: ben invited too many girls
  • crowding out
  • competitive inhibition up in this

samedi 20 avril 2013

#YOSSO



Graduation slide they’ll show on the big screen for SEAS ceremony. It’s getting real.

lundi 15 avril 2013

Morning chats with @QQdp

+Daniel Park : oh balls
  • my manager's going to talk to me
  • i should just tell him it was one harmless picture of emma watson right?
  • i already got street cred from my coworkers for knowing who wutang was
  • she's a huge fan of wutang
  • i got street cred from her
  • and she recommended me to the lead for the dputy position
  • so i indirectly got this promotion because of bboying
  • wutup
  • i want to just decline the offer and be like
  • nah man i can't be deputy
  • then turn around and walk away
  • then after 5 steps
  • i drop a knee
  • do a coindrop
  • and be like
  • but if you ask
  • i can keep it poppin' for ya
  • cue bboy stance
  • me: CAN YOU NOT
  • OMG
  • WHO ARE YOU
  • DP: i'm every 80s bboying movie
  • yeah son

lundi 1 avril 2013

What you need to know about Ben Shyong

Credit to John Zhang:


  • +Benjamin Shyong's body is so well sculpted, Michaelangelo saw it from heaven and sh-t his robes
  • Rihanna is back with Chris Brown because Ben Shyong said so
  • "Men sleep without shirts on" - Ben Shyong
  • Ben Shyong created so many jobs, he's the reason S&P hit an all time high
  • Taylor Swift's songs are all about Ben Shyong
  • Kanye West lets Ben Shyong finish
  • On a scale of one to Ben Shyong, Aphrodite is only a 7 ;)
  • Ben Shyong's the reason California is so sunny
  • Ben Shyong's shirts and jackets are so tight, it always fits an Asian girl he's with perfectly in the winter
  • 方文山 steals love song lyrics from Ben Shyong's facebook wall
  • Ben Shyong's heart is so tender, it's softer than Philadelphia Eagle's offensive line
  • Honey is sweet, bears eat honey, Ben Bear is sweet ♥
  • Ben Shyong also GTL's - Girls, Taiwan, Love
  • Ben Shyong's voice is so high, Dawei takes a hit...
  • Ben Shyong likes girls

mardi 26 mars 2013

Week #11

Week #10

  • NYC trip with +Michael Chen +Michael Thornhill +Giulia Porcari +Jason Choi +Mark Chou +Matt Curtis 
  • Inside jokes
    • I can get behind that
    • Cuban lips
    • Creme brule & spiked donuts ("my lips hurt!")
    • Three-pronged handshake
    • Throwing Faith into public transpo
    • No weapon
    • False
    • 54 likes
    • Squalay
    • We both lose
    • Trip over boxes
    • Ghosting
    • Punch my punch
    • You corny ("..Jesus?")
    • Blowin' it up
    • If Jesus is sleeping, I'm sleeping
    • Waka flocka
    • Batman voice
    • Shrimp meals
    • Get my blessing
    • Corn dusting

Week #9

Week #8